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Organizational Resources
I am taking a page from Master and passing along some of the resources I use to help. Part of my service to Sir is as an administrative assistant so to speak. I schedule appointments on his calendar,...
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BDSM 101: Your First Club Event
I wrote previously about going to your first munch. There are other types of BDSM events as well. The next one I want to look at is the Club Event. BDSM clubs meet in various hotel rooms, leather bars...
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Something for your weekend
I know this is a bit of short notice but if you are in the NY/NJ area and have time Jay Wiseman will be giving two classes at the Crawlspace in Montclair, NJ on 4/11. He will be talking about conflict...
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Surrender and Obedience
Surrender: –verb (used without object) 6. to give oneself up, as into the power of another; submit or yield. Obedience: 1 a: an act or instance of obeying I am learning that my life with Sir is one of...
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Safety in BDSM Is Not Always Black and White
A post on one of the websites I frequent today spurred a thought on the issues of safety and BDSM. BDSM is a high risk activity, along the lines of hiking and camping, white water rafting, or even...
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Protocols from a slave’s view
My Master has done an excellent job of portraying his thinking on how and what protocols are for His house. I would like to relate how these protocols affect me. This definition of a protocols was...
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BDSM 101: Your First Playparty
So, in the past I wrote about going to your first Munch or your first Club Event. Now you’re ready for some fun. Lets talk about a real, honest too God play party.First, what is a play party? A play...
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Knife Play Basics
I wanted to take a few minutes of your time today and teach you a bit about knife play. I want to explain what knife play is and isn’t, share with you some basic knife play techniques for beginners,...
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I Too Are An Internets Dominate
Ok, this shouldn’t take too long. Pay attention. There will be a quiz at the end. I see a fairly common statement made by D-types out on the internets, and I feel compelled to say something. If you...
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Electrical Play Basics: TENS Unit
I believe that the best way to begin with electrical play is the TENS unit. (TENS means Transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation.) A Tens unit is a box you use to generate an electrical pulse which...
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How Not to Negotiate –“I desire to be your slave”
So when I started in this lifestyle I knew nothing about labels all I knew was that I desired to be with someone that I can give over everything too. I often say that I have no middle ground it is...
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Centered Through Meditation
One of the tools that I use to help keep me centered is meditation. I meditate 3 days out of the week for 20 minutes. I usually meditate with soothing music playing and in a dark room. This helps me...
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Traditions Forgotten
There are a couple of items that have come to my attention that reminded me that we aren’t teaching the new people properly. So here are 2 things to keep in mind. 1) Keep it private. By and large,...
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To Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice
Photo credit: Wikipedia Ok. I saw something on FetLife today that really annoyed me. A slave essentially said the following: It isn’t my choice to do this, my Master made me do this. Bull-fucking-shit....
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Negotiations: Are You Doing It Wrong?
I was reading the other day about a very well known professional submissive who had a bad scene. While she was tied up, on stage, the person she was with refused to stop when she said to stop. He was...
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